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Thursday, August 28, 2025

Joey

 


He was the tiniest of all of Sophie’s puppies.  In a litter of ten, a runt could be expected, but Joey just didn’t seem to grow much at all, in spite of supplemental feedings from a bottle.  I had a bad feeling about the little tri-color boy, although he seemed lively and perfectly able to fight his way through the crowd for a turn at his mom’s table.  As I watched his miniscule paws push against the rim of the baby bottle when I fed him, I tried to tell myself that he was just small, but doubt crept in as the other nine seemed to grow overnight.

Then Monroe came to visit.  She had been asking for weeks when the puppies would be born and she was eager to see them.  Monroe has been a favorite of Sophie since she was a baby and she loves puppies.  So, one Saturday morning, I got a call from Annie, Monroe’s mom, that they wanted to come visit the puppies. 


The first thing Monroe did was climb into the wading pool that doubles as a whelping box and sit down with Sophie and her family.  The next thing she did was hone in on Joey.  Before I knew it, she had him in her lap.  Shortly after that, she was on the living room sofa with the tiny puppy cradled in her arms, talking to him as if he were her best friend. 

From then on, Monroe kept up with Joey and his progress.  Every Sunday morning before church, she asked “How is Joey?”  And about every couple of weeks, she and her mom showed up to check on her favorite puppy.  She spent most of her visit carrying Joey around the house, sitting with him in the swing, or wrapping him in a blanket and pulling him in a little wagon.  It was astonishing how he just lay there.  In the back of my mind, I still worried about his size – he was only about half the size of his littermates.  But at his six-week visit to the vet, he and his siblings got a clean bill of health.  “I knew he would be okay,” said Monroe.  And I expect she did. Sometimes it just takes a little extra love from a special little person.  He didn't let his size bother him, wrestling with his brothers and sisters, pushing his way in to the feeding pans and figuring out that if the steps were a little too high, he could go around to the ramp at the end of the porch!  





As the puppies grew, Annie said she tried to warn Monroe that I might find a new home for Joey.  “No,” Monroe said, “Mary Beth won’t do that.”  What could I do?  I think that sometime during those bottle feedings and those trips through the house in that little wagon, the decision was made that Joey would be staying.  The last thing I needed was another dog, but what can you do when one steals your heart?  Monroe’s grandmother, my cousin Alice, accused me of grooming Monroe to want to take Joey home with her.  I would have done that if I thought it would work, but the family already had two dogs and a new baby on the way later in the summer.  So, I will just have to share Joey with Monroe at my house.

Suddenly, it seemed, Joey was no longer a tiny puppy.  In fact, he eventually caught up with his littermates and became quite the handsome young dog, with one tipped ear and one upright. I expect he will be a handsome and dignified adult.


  He has developed his own personality and learned to jump up on the bed, a trick his dad and older sister have never mastered.  I think he was astonished the first time he did it – he sat there and looked around like he didn’t understand how he got there. He loves to lick my face and was the first to learn to sit for a treat. He sleeps upside down, still likes to crawl into my lap and has discovered a secret way from the back yard into the front yard.  I can close the gate and he beats me back into the house.  I need to get Monroe to come out here again.  Maybe he will tell her how he does it.


 

Thursday, August 21, 2025

Shooting Stars

 

I missed seeing the shooting stars from the Perseid Meteor Showers this week.  It always seems to be cloudy in my part of the world during these events, or maybe I just don’t have the patience to hang around long enough for the clouds to end.  But I did witness shooting stars off another kind last weekend, at a performance by the Hickman County Performing Arts Group.   It was their final performance before several of the teens go off to the rest of their lives.  Their story is amazing – their journey has been something to witness.


It was a little over a year ago when a few teens came up with the idea of putting on shows to raise funds for their senior year at the local high school.  We, as part of the board at the local Ag Pavilion and Fairgrounds, had worked with the local 4-H and other groups to sponsor a Youth Arts Festival for a couple of years.  We wanted to give the kids, from kindergarten and up, a place to show their artistic side, make a little money, and earn some prizes.  We had no idea what we were starting.   The participants showed up with drawings, photographs, paintings, jewelry, baking, and sculpture, along with performances in dance, music and theatre.  It was a great day.


Shortly after the festival, the teens asked if we would let them create a few of their own musical shows.  All we really had to do was open the doors, hang around for a couple of hours, supervise the building of sets and give a little advice when needed.  The kids wrote the script, chose the music, designed the program, painted the scenery and roped their parents into helping with concessions and taking up money at the door.  They flooded social media and local newspapers with promotion for their first show, back in August of 2024 and they were off at a gallop.  

Their first show was called Artist Showcase, and it lived up to its name.  Raw talent stepped on stage, a few performers for their very first time.  The rafters shook from the percussion of a rock band, an elegant young dancer graced the stage, and a college student’s performance on the old, neglected piano made the audience forget it was just an old, out-of-tune instrument .  And then there was the singing.  We discovered a gold mine of talent, right here in our midst. One of the most stunning performances came from a shy, young girl who had never sung in public and now has taught herself to play guitar and is finding solo gigs all over town.


As the performances came and went, the loyal fans watched shyness melt away, confidence increase, command of the stage blossom and new faces appear to make us forget for a couple of hours that we were just watching a group of kids we had known since their preschool days.  By the fourth or fifth show, the group had met their fundraising goal.  On their own, they decided to use part of the remaining funds for a scholarship to help a senior further his or her arts journey.  Their journey took a few detours, as they branched out into performances and volunteer work at other venues.  Some of them performed at Christmas on the Square and the Ag and Arts Tour After Concert, helped with the Haunted Tour of the Square,  sang on the local radio and at other events, big and small.  They shone in the high school plays, and the leader of the group was grand marshal of the Halloween parade. 

The seventh show, a salute to rock and roll, was supposed to be their last, but they decided to do a retrospective of all their performances.  Anniversary Anthem was presented last week, a farewell to many and an introduction to the new host and a promise to continue the project.  The remaining performers already have a lot of big ideas. There were some tears, but mostly there was pride – pride in the growth and maturity reached over the past year.  They are all shooting stars, and we can’t wait to see where they land.